Formative Years and Sexuality

When it comes to intimate relationships, have you ever wondered why you keep behaving in a certain way? or repeating the same patterns? Maybe you’ve just resigned yourself to – that’s just the way it is. It doesn’t have to be. Through reviewing the circumstances around your introduction to the world you can understand why you behave the way you do and a path to self-acceptance.

The bottom line of any sexual or intimacy issue is to find out the cause of the problem. Often this cause is so much deeper than we realize.

Our personal lie, the most negative thought we have about ourselves that gets acted out in our life and is for most of us formed between conception and infancy. It is the core of our life problems and once we process it, we notice when it is happening and the power it holds over us is released. Not being good enough has many permutations. Finding the one that is relevant to your circumstances, is key to your transformation and lightening up.

Do you feel shame, guilt, embarassed, disppointed, alone or abandonned in your intimate relationships?

Do you overreact to your partner?

Do you avoid intimacy?

Do you feel like no one understands you?

For instance, if your father wanted a boy and you’re not, how does this make you feel as a woman? and how do you react to masculine partners?

Did your mother keep her pregnancy a secret? How secretive are you when it comes to intimate partners?

How were you fed and nurtured during your infancy? The way this was done impacts your imtimacy, creating relationship dynamics that cause upset and struggle.

Relationships fail when you don’t understand the other person, vice versa. Through understanding how we are imprinted during this critical period we can relax with our partners. Taking responsibility for our behaviors and having compassion for theirs. This allows us to be open and communicate with our partners.

Not only our birth experience, but also family traditions and religious mindsets frame our sexual experience and the success or failure of our intimate relationships. Often we feel we are alone, separate, unique and that no one understands what we are going through, especially about our sexuality.

We create our sexual histories, which start at the moment we are conceived. Our sexual attitudes and happenings are affected by what happened to us at conception, in the womb, at birth, in infancy and early childhood. We are making very sophisticated decisions about our sexuality before we have any conscious memories.

Our sexual nature is something to be celebrated, not be ashamed of.

When done in a group you hear the facilitator’s and other participant’s stories and it sparks curiosity in  you and perhaps a remembering of your own circumstances. A safe space is opened up to explore the feelings, memories and realisations that you make. Through the group experience you can allow yourself to finally feel acceptance.

Find out how your sexual history is related to your conception, time in the womb, birth and infancy and reclaim your innocence, with Rhonda Levand. Rhonda will be facilitating the experiential seminar Lightening Up On Sex September 27-29, 2024.

You will learn about:

• Celebrating our sexuality & sensuality

• Sexual communication skills

• Unleashing more passion

• Completing and healing the past

• Spirituality and sexuality

There will be transformative processes and a breathe each day.

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